What I meant was quit engaging conversation that is going to garner a response you don't trust. YOU began that exchange with the peaceful co-parenting comment. You opened the door wide open, for her to respond. Why, if you don't trust her answers?
This makes a lot more sense. I said what i did because its honestly what i want Ginger, Its the way she said it that seems disingenuous to me. I mentioned Honesty twice in my message i sent her, yet she omits mention of honesty. I know she has lied about S3 sleeping at OM's house, and OUR ENTIRE relationship was all lies, why would I believe her. Just because she replied to something i said does not mean i can take at face value.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Whether you say nothing or thank you to what she said makes absolutely no difference in the world. There is your answer. Doesn't matter what you choose. But I strongly suggest you don't ask questions or make grand statements about your relationship (co-parenting relationship) such as you did if you can't believe or handle the answer.
It was an attempt at an olive branch after a very bad argument weeks ago Ginger. I knew what i was saying when i said it and i knew the type of response i might have to deal with. I come here to bounce ideas off all of you because i thought this was a place i could do that 100% honestly without being vilified. Just because i dont believe the answer i got doesnt mean id prefer the alternative.
My last comment. You did not extend an olive branch. You were passive aggressive in what you said to try to get her to admit to S3 sleeping in a bed with OM. You said it there yourself. You mentioned honesty because your intention of that comment was to get her to fess up.
She is probably seeing right through your tactics too. You play her just as well, trying to get her to say what you want her to say.
Until you really wipe the slate clean, take an different approach and stop indulging in her mental illness, I see you going in unhealthy circles, which are uneahlthy for your S.
I also wish you a good camping trip. Maybe the peace will help you see what you really need to do. because the same stuff just isn't working.
P.S- "take note of how Sandi writes a post"- that passive aggressive.
