T you are completely right. But the value of reading it is that MWD has a very good way of explaining the what and the how. But even the why!
So read it. Even if you don't want to save your M it will give you great edification for your next relationship. Remember, loving detachment is actually a very healthy way to be in relationships. Over attachment leads to neediness and smothering.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018