I think you are right MRay. I don't think she knows what she wants. I never believed that she ruled out R with me. I just don't think she wants it now...and that's fine. I am living my life as it comes...not waiting around for her or bothering her. The only time I communicate with her is when she starts it. I am just fine if weeks, even months, go by without speaking to her. I did it for 4 years so it's not a problem or a trauma for me. I think she is trying to figure out what she wants. But if she wants to hang our again, it's going to be dinner and a band or nothing. My mind is made up in that regard. No more pow-wows as I call them LOL!
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
