I guess that's how I'll approach it Steve. If she asks a question I'll answer her. But if she tries to initiate hanging out I'm not doing it. Or maybe if she tries to initiate hanging out I will propose an obvious date situation like dinner and a band or something. If she refuses then so be it. I'm just going to treat her like I do other women I date. I don't go hang out with them, we go out. If she's that dead set against romance with me then eventually she'll stop asking to hang out anyway. So I guess I can let the trash take itself out here.As I always say, I want her...but I most definitely don't need her to maintain my happiness.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14