This is why you need to avoid R talks for now. All I see here is you chasing and him fleeing. The exact opposite dynamic that you want. You want to be distancing/detaching, and then eventually he may chase. But he can not ever be the chaser if you are chaser.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018