Well I am fine with #1 but Artista suggested I pull way back. As I've said before how exactly do I do that when I don't initiate anything. So if she sends me a text I only have two options...reply or not reply. So if I want to pull back what options do I have here? As I said, I never text her first, call her first, or anything like that. So pulling back from what exactly is my ultimate question here.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14