Originally Posted by ItHurts
Nope she didn't ask me a question at all. Just mentioned that. What a weird text and why would she think of my Mom regarding it? I'm just not replying. I've had enough of her BS. If she follows up with something else I'll be back to let you know.


I don't think she's BS'ing you, she's just content to keep things as friends for now and maybe for good. We've said this before but you've got two choices- 1) continue being friends and see if eventually it becomes something more or 2) put your foot down and say being friends is not acceptable to you and tell her you either need to date for real or you're done with her. I think when we brought this up before you were OK with 1). But if that's no longer the case then it may be time for the ultimatum in 2). I wouldn't just go dark on her though, you really have nothing to lose by talking to her about it. You're not dealing with a WAS anymore.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57