One thing that nobody here has seemed to grasp excluding Sandi and Vanilla is the abnormality and chaotic nature of my EX. She is abusive, manipulative, and a COMPULSIVE liar.
I think a lot of you are still viewing her through the lens of a normal woman, WAW or WW. She isnt.
"She could lay a bag of money at your feet and you would find 100 ways to hate her for it." This simply isnt true AS. but thanks for the input regardless.
We are all grasping that she is abnormal/crazy, a liar, abusive, manipulative.
We absolutely get that.
But we don't focus on her.
What matter is it if she is al those things stated above when it comes to a reply to YOUR statement of wanting good co-parenting????? STOP TALKING TO HER IF YOU DON'T TRUST HER ANSWERS
her mental status is not relevant in this issue. She will do what she does, she will say what she says. There is nothing that she could say to you obviously, so say nothing to her!
You are absolutely placing your self in this position.
