Vets, I'm going to confirm it when I have a consult with a lawyer next week, but I'm pretty certain that there is nothing legally stopping me from moving back in to the family home. My name is on the lease and 99.99% of my belongings are there. My desire is to do exactly that once I've gotten a job.
Looking at your sig it sounds like you've been away 4 months? Yeah definitely talk to an L first just to make sure there aren't legal issues.
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but the actual telling her my intentions and making it clear that this is for my mental health and general well-being and my needs to see my children. That it's not about her and that I'm doing what I need to do for me. That I understand she has fired me from my job as H and that it is no longer my concern what her wants/needs are and that she can do whatever she needs to do, but I'm moving back in. I'll stay out of her way if she wants to stay too, and if she wants to leave, that's her prerogative.
Any advice?
Well I would refrain from any marriage-related comments. And just make sure your legal ducks are in a row because she will probably get really angry and might call the police or otherwise attempt to have you forcibly removed. I'm not saying not to do it, but prepare for the worst and hope for the best.