WAW or WW? What should I do to save my MR.

[Wyoung]

Thanks a lot hongaku and Steve85. I got to stop asking her out with us. I can sometimes stop thinking about it for a moment, but then I fall back. It's almost like I subconsciously got addicted to it. Indeed I made what I fear the most. When she was still close to me, I kept pushing her in the hope we would return to normal, but instead, she stepped back. At the time, I thought I couldn't accept the fact that she is sleeping in a different bedroom with me. But now, I comprised to only not get divorced. I am losing my ground step by step.

One thing I realized is that my wife is actually detaching from me. How she behaves is very similar to what detachment prescribes. She only talks to me about practical matters. She rarely initiates contact. She doesn't talk about MR. She is treating me like a friendly cashier.... What's the best response to this? Detach myself?