I am starting over. New title, New Attitude, New expectations.
Well so far I'm seeing you post the same old stuff.
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I sure have. and i was as full of $hit as a honeywagon. I was lying to myself and inadvertently BSing all of you.
I agree, and I think it's something you need to do a 180 on. Not for us but for your own health and sanity.
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I know this is how she presents when she wants to play nice, ive seen the same type of message before, and so have her EX's.
I cant help but laugh that she gave me permission not to reply.
I also know she doesn't want me to move on, meet anyone new or be happy.
I know some of you may knock me for continuing to be negative in the face of a seemingly positive message, but its just how she is.
Everything is smoke and mirrors.
as much as it is a challenge to keep myself from replying, I will not be replying to this message, and i dont buy a word of it.
Any thoughts?
Alright, well you asked for it. You are being absolutely ridiculous. It was a polite message and you want to twist and turn it into something dark and nefarious. No wonder you drive this woman crazy, she literally cannot do anything right in your eyes. She could lay a bag of money at your feet and you would find 100 ways to hate her for it. You need to find ways to let go of all the hatred, anger and resentment. It is eating you up inside and it poisons your interactions with her and everyone else including us here. We want to help you, but you've got to want to be helped and so far you don't. You want to tell us why we're wrong. You want to tell us why you know better than us. What you need is to start over. New attitude, new expectations. Sound familiar?
