I too went the OLD route but have recently closed my accounts. I met someone out of the blue, went out a few times and realized I wasn't ready. I have continued to GAL!! really like my new direction in life! The ex! no more blaming me that I know of, we haven't talked outside of some lingering financial stuff and the kids. She has actually soften a bit from her hardened shell! Has been more pleasant around me when we did see each other and now when she sends me messages about the kids every time she adds a little more to the conversation like how i'm doing and hope I had a good weekend etc..... We are doing a great job co parenting! We do help each other when we need to.
