Ok Day 1 of Fresh Start is beginning with a challenge.
STBXW Sent a message just now.
STBXW: " Hi OrangeK, I know that you mentioned you are unavailable to talk and going away for the weekend so i will keep this short and its ok if you dont reply. I just wanted to say in response to your long text yesterday i agree. I also just want us to focus on co-parenting S3 to the best of our abilities and have no ill will or animosity towards one another. I am glad for you that you have moved on and i hope it brings light, happiness and positivity into your life and S3's life. I truly do. Have a good trip and I will talk to you next week about the schedule"
I know this is how she presents when she wants to play nice, ive seen the same type of message before, and so have her EX's.
I cant help but laugh that she gave me permission not to reply.
I also know she doesn't want me to move on, meet anyone new or be happy. I know some of you may knock me for continuing to be negative in the face of a seemingly positive message, but its just how she is. Everything is smoke and mirrors.
as much as it is a challenge to keep myself from replying, I will not be replying to this message, and i dont buy a word of it.
Any thoughts?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
