W texts me this morning. Ignoring me a lot. Yesterday we had a brief conversation by text of course starting with her talking about D3 diet / potty training then birthday plans. I finished the conversation with I dont want to converse by text all the time its not a real relationship and there are no small steps that will be taken this way. In my mind this was the end of the text conversation.
She said Ok. It's a small step if you can understand that.
I did not reply to that text. I didnt want to disagree or argue, maybe I should of validated... W wants to talk through text a lot and we would probably be texting all day if I allowed it.
Do I want her to think Im ignoring her. It kind of tears on me because I want to talk to her and be with her and D3. But then Im ignoring... I guess I should just briefly respond some time later and not ignore...
This morning I said small step to what if you mean reconciliation there are a lot of things that need to happen and taking any steps would start with talking face to face we've texted the whole time we've been separated. So what do you mean a small step
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
