Ah. D@mned if you do, d@mned if you don't. Know that situation too! That's why it's best to do what you want based on good intentions and your own moral compass. That eliminates second guessing and helps criticism flow off.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
