Good job listening and validating

Nice to see some self reflection and awareness

Good for you for doing your thing and not apologizing unnecessarily

The thing about you leaving to take care of kid

My w gets mad and gives me the same is that more important q

So when we are engaged in the rare serious conversation

I do try my best to ignore unless there is a real crisis

And funny thing is if the kids are screaming and I am ignoring

Sometimes she will then say are you not going to deal with them

And I will say I this is more important


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving