As I've told other posters, the posters that struggle the most here are the ones that put the least emphasis on GAL. One poster that has always struggled mightily, when I asked last week what his GAL plans were for that night, responded "be bored out of my mind....."
Very dangerous. Go out with friends, but ask them NOT to talk about the sitch. The fact that you think about it all the time means you aren't concentrating on other things, and trying to get your mind off of it. Find ways to stay busy! I don't care if its as simple as cleaning out the gutters, you have to be busy in order to move forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
