WW-is there hope? Any advise from former WW's

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I always wonder/ed if im doing the right things. I think detaching has helped me a little bit, but i dont think it helped my M so far. I agree with Joseph, its hard not treating her like your W. Honestly, sometimes its like stanfing on the sidelines and watching a movie or train wreck, and there is nothing you can do.

Just keep taking care of yourself and kids L. Do your 180's and GAL. At the end of the day, i think everyone here needs to be in a better place when the dust settles, no matter what happens with our W's.