OK here goes first post... pt 3

[Ready2Change]

I will give my opinion about something I see happening in many M's today. Take it FWIW. I believe it is the nature of most women to be attracted to a man who out ranks her (in some way) to some degree. I also believe there are some women who are attracted to a man who she would feel was her equal.... It is a woman's nature to find a mate that is capable of protecting & providing for her and her offspring. What does this have to do with a SAHD? It's all in how she sees him.....When the man doesn't work and he becomes the homemaker and raises the children...….the natural dynamics change and the woman loses admiration and attraction for him.

Sandi is Wise. She is the only one STILL posting here out of all the support people I had when I was going through my divorce (around2009).

Michele talks about doing 180's. Nice guys need to learn to be more assertive. The "Bad boys" need to learn to be more caring. Start adding behaviours of the "Bad boys" that woman find attractive. I can elaborate if needed.