My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 3

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Wanna get some opinions here on our vehicle situation. We have 3 cars.

1 nice/decent car: mine, paid off since before marriage
1 decent truck: W's, paid off since before marriage
1 really nice vehicle, bought after marriage with $1000/MO payment

W drives the really nice vehicle. Last month I decided to start driving it bc W isn't contributing financially to the accounts paying for it. Not only that she still spent some of my money that was accidentally deposited there by work ($1600 to pay her credit cards).

I have been waiting for a week and a half for her to come home so I could do this but I'm tired of waiting. I also don't think she should drive my car bc she's having an affair plus she always gets it nasty, tree sap on it, dirty.

Should I swap her out for her vehicle? Should I do it while she's at work or OM's apt. OMs apt is too weird.

Also, if anyone has anything to add in response to my last post I would love that too.

Thanks.