Vets, I'm going to confirm it when I have a consult with a lawyer next week, but I'm pretty certain that there is nothing legally stopping me from moving back in to the family home. My name is on the lease and 99.99% of my belongings are there. My desire is to do exactly that once I've gotten a job.

My questions obviously revolve around how I should navigate doing this. I know how to behave around my W once there and all of that, but the actual telling her my intentions and making it clear that this is for my mental health and general well-being and my needs to see my children. That it's not about her and that I'm doing what I need to do for me. That I understand she has fired me from my job as H and that it is no longer my concern what her wants/needs are and that she can do whatever she needs to do, but I'm moving back in. I'll stay out of her way if she wants to stay too, and if she wants to leave, that's her prerogative.

Any advice?

M: 40 W: 37
T: 20 MR: 13
S13, S9, S4
BD: 1/29/18
Sep: 4/23/18 (I moved out)
8/24/18 I come home, she moves out

If you want to get out of the hole, drop the shovel.