H.....I agree I have not been a chatter and every girl so far I have tried to meet ASAP so I could cut to the chase and find out if there is attraction. Usually I have sent about 4 messages back and forth then suggested we meet. I have had 5 dates in a couple of months and they all have not worked out.
Wow. You move fast! But you know, woman are all different (since they're people too ), and some want to get right to the meeting, while others want to take their time.
Originally Posted by Joseph9
The girl I am currently talking to we have been chatting for a week.........partially because she was on vacation last week. This is more than I ever wanted to but it just kind of happened so we have a date set for tomorrow so we shall see if we have the chemistry.
Good luck! I think a week is a good sweet spot for chatting.The thing is, it doesn't have to be 10 messages a day. You don't want to be too available.
Originally Posted by Joseph9
The one thing I do no is it can get expensive so I would keep it to coffee if you can for the first meeting. It will save your bankroll. I have not been good at this!
I hear ya! I had one week where I had three dates. My wallet was not happy at the end of that week.
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), and some want to get right to the meeting, while others want to take their time. 