Benito, a major issue for W has been resentment towards me for being the main carer of the kids. The CYA yesterday and the messages today I now realise just how controlling W is being over access to the kids.
If W wants D then she will need to accept that what happens when it's my time with them is up to me. W is the one who will need to learn to let go... or she can make an effort for a MR.
