When you got the letter I would have followed up with her and asked her if she was still going to take him and went from there. I would not have just swooped in to make it happen.

This scenario is different though than the haircut.

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018