Advice on my Scenario Pt. 22

[OrangeK]

Therein lies my point Joe, She doesnt CARE what he wants. He could tell her 1000 times and if SHE doesnt want it shorter, she wont do it.

That is on her.....it is not your responsibility to fix.

I have to disagree here. If she will not provide for S3, and give him what is best for him, what kind of father am i if i do not advocate for my own childs wants and needs?
She has proven she cannot be trusted to provide for S3 in all regards, where she fails, i will provide.
thats my job as dad, esp. dad to the child of a mentally disordered mother.

Well her life choices were horrible, slutty and downright cold hearted, she deserves to know that what shes doing by letting S3 sleep in OM's bed is flat out, crap parenting and she should be ashamed of that choice.

I agree but it is not your responsibility to shame her and rub her face in it.

So she just gets to waltz through life treating people like garbage with no repercussions, not even a mention that her repeated behaviors destroy lives including that of her childs?
that's a hard pill to swallow Joe, dunno if i can do that.
Ill try.