Advice on my Scenario Pt. 22

[OrangeK]

I would not do this. If your S doesn't like it he needs to tell his mom.

Therein lies my point Joe, She doesnt CARE what he wants. He could tell her 1000 times and if SHE doesnt want it shorter, she wont do it.
She doesnt view him as an individual, but as her belonging. Its how Narc's are with their kids. If he doesnt properly project the image SHE wants projected, he suffers for it. All he is to her is an Instagram Mannequin.

She doesn't take it as you care about S3.....she takes it as a jab towards OM, her life choices, that you are upset about OM.

Well her life choices were horrible, slutty and downright cold hearted, she deserves to know that what shes doing by letting S3 sleep in OM's bed is flat out, crap parenting and she should be ashamed of that choice. Yet again, S3's needs DONT MATTER. As long as she has the convenience of not having to drive S3 back to her moms, she doesnt care.

Every time you are passive aggressive with her, make snide remarks, question her, etc. etc. etc. it re-affirms in her mind that she made the right choice.

I dont care what choice she made, i miss her yea, but i dont want her back. Nor do i wish to be in the MR that I had. It was deceptive and abusive.
I am passive aggressive with her when she acts like a child, moving forward I will just ignore her instead.