H.....I agree I have not been a chatter and every girl so far I have tried to meet ASAP so I could cut to the chase and find out if there is attraction. Usually I have sent about 4 messages back and forth then suggested we meet. I have had 5 dates in a couple of months and they all have not worked out.
The girl I am currently talking to we have been chatting for a week.........partially because she was on vacation last week. This is more than I ever wanted to but it just kind of happened so we have a date set for tomorrow so we shall see if we have the chemistry.
The one thing I do no is it can get expensive so I would keep it to coffee if you can for the first meeting. It will save your bankroll. I have not been good at this!