OK - I cried my eyes out every morning and every night for about 3 months straight. I cried my eyes out in the middle of the day sitting at my desk at work. I had to tell my team and I sat in conference with them I couldn't even get the words out of my mouth.....I just cried.
My oldest will remember, she still struggles with it. They were 8 and 6 when all of this went down. The good news is that your son will never remember. Everyone here has lost something, some more than others.
There are times where I hate my XW....like when she got her boob job, when she told me she had a BF, when she introduced my kids to her BF, when she seems as though she doesn't have a care in the world, when she seems that her life is so great, when I see her smile, etc. etc. etc.
What the fuch am I going to do about it????????????? Not a fuching thing.
At some point in time you have to reach down deep and fuching nut up......I just got tired of everything. It fuching wore me out and I refused to chase her and give her any satisfaction or power over me.
You made people mad because you refused to listen and you were not making progress with moving forward. Eventually people stop commenting because it feels like they are wasting their time.
DBing is a battle against yourself....it is not a battle against your W.
