WAW or WW? What should I do to save my MR.

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W keeps refusing to attend any activities together with me and S4. She'd rather prefer staying home watching some soap TV shows. However, she keeps sending me potential activities that I could bring S4 to attend. For example, she sent me a link about a puppet show. I then told her I booked the tickets for all 3 of us. She responded saying she will not go. It seems she wants S4 to be well cared, but she is not willing to do it herself. She wants is to be left alone.

Should I just stop asking her? I still ask her to join us because we actually had good times we three go out, and those are great opportunities to showcase my 180s and to reconnect with her emotionally. But she did tell me that she dislikes me now, thus doesn't want to go out with me.

I know I am still pursuing her. I've read the "distancing and chasing". But my wife has always been a very passive girl. She would never chase anyone. I worry that if I stop attempting to reconnect, we will drift further apart.