"I haven't heard from you in over a month. Wondering where you are at with signing the papers (simple divorce and not required for me to sign).
FFH, I'm not clear what this means, has she already served you with D papers? I didn't see that mentioned in any of your posts so I'm not sure if she's asking you to sign them or if she is trying to coerce you into drawing up the papers. If she wants you to draw them up then no, do not do that. The general attitude here is not to help with the D, but don't do anything to block it either. If she draws up the papers and asks for your signature, then sign it (assuming you agree with the terms). In the US it only takes one to D, you can't stop it so you shouldn't try as that will just make things worse.
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Brothers and sisters, any advice in my sitch? Based on my beliefs, there are no grounds for divorce. I don't want to file.
Don't file, if she wants a D then SHE needs to do all the work. Don't interfere, but don't do any of the heavy lifting for her.
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At this point, the only thing I can think of doing is calling her out for he sins, both against me and God, but I know that probably won't have an impact.
Oh it will have an impact, but not a good one. Definitely refrain from taking a "holier than thou" stance against her, because all she will do is flip the script on you and tell you how bad of an H you were and how you did not fulfill your Christian duties (true or not this is what she will do, it's what all WAS's do).
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Completely lost TBH. I know my marriage is likely over. I just struggle that the person conversing with me is someone I have never met before.
Given your very, very short marriage you need to consider that perhaps this is who she was all along and you just saw her "on her best behavior" for a while.
