LH...as has been pointed out many times there nothing I can do to ensure that this never happens to me again other than my closing up shop on future relationships.
i have learned that life is unfair, bad things happen to good people, stuff happens that can't be explained, truth is/can be hard to accept. I have learned validation, empathy, the 5 LLs, the effects of depression/anxiety on MRs, I will survive, life will go on, my friends/family/God will not forsake me, commitments are not certain nor is the future....much more but that's the list off the top of my head.
