Finding my way into the light

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I agree with you 100 percent. Its inappropriate to put the pics of your young sons up. That is something i would take very seriously and ask her to remove. Single women with young kids are a target of pedophiles. Have her cross put their faces if she wants to use that pic. It is very reasonable for you to request that.

I especially hated it when guys put pics up of kids that werent even theirs. I always wonder if the mothers of those kids actually gave pernission for their kids pics to be up on a public dating site. Although less chance for female pedophiles i guess.

JujuB, the thing with the pic is, it only shows a profile of each of my boys, as they're both kissing her on the cheek. So I guess it's not a real clear pic of them and maybe I can't justifiably ask her to remove it. But it still bugs me.

Hi H....welcome back! My old experience has not been good either so I like your idea of raising you ur standards. I think I might have met someone this time though that my have a future. I would suggest chatting with them longer to see if it is even worth meeting them.

Hey, J9! I was reading your thread a while ago, and I saw your XW had apparently been seeing someone you didn't know about. Sorry to hear about that.

How long do you recommend chatting? I usually go about a week and then ask to meet at that point. I'm reluctant to chat too much, as you can build a rapport with a person online and have it totally fizzle in person.

H, Been awhile since we've heard from you! Just dropping in to say hi! Good job on raising your standards by the way!! You have a second chance, don't settle!!

Dusty, my man! Good to hear from you! We were always on parallel paths. I don't intend to settle, not again, and my OLD experience has solidified that. If anything, I'm starting to come to terms with the possibility of "forever alone".

I noticed your new thread in the D forum too - is your XW still trying to shift the blame to you?