B - You have no idea what another woman would want or need. You do what is right for you.....it is something you should not worry about.
Truthfully it is better that you are going through this now when your D is 3 versus when they are truly old enough to understand and remember what it was like to have mommy and daddy under 1 roof.
It [censored] but try to keep it into perspective. It helped me.
