Youre all right. This morning she texts me why are you ignoring me its hurtful.
I said youre at the beach for D3s birthday trip whats hurtful. I dont want to communicate by text if you want to talk to me pick up the phone. (We have communicated mostly only by text since S - which I hate) I have no need for a texting relationship with an occasional hug from my wife that left or breakfast invites...
(response an hour later) "I am sorry you feel I am being hurtful, I've just been very busy today."
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She said small steps are unacceptable?
(response) "I am not sure what you mean, if you mean towards reconciliation then there are many steps that need to take place before I can consider that, and insignificant texting is not one of them."
She should not assume reconciliation is her choice and a foregone conclusion. YOU are the prize here, you need to be MUCH LESS AVAILABLE to her. Not sure how many people need to tell you this before it sinks in, maybe one more
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Im getting really fed up with it. Im going to heed the advice and just not text, respond less etc.
