Did, not at all. If you followed every word of advice to a tee, none of us has a clue if you'd have your family back. BUT what you would have is self-respect, love for yourself, your needs a priority, your emotional security, and you'd be ready to move on in life with or without her.
DBing advice isn't about saving your R, though sometimes it has that awesome benefit. It is about saving the LBS.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018