Advice on my Scenario Pt. 22

[OrangeK]

I just cannot fathom the vilification of me (the LBH).
Its like she projects all of her guilt, remorse, and bad decisions onto me like her crap choices were my fault.
She knows she did this, its not like our MR went toxic over the course of 15-30 years.
It was fresh and new, so there wasnt time to build the slow hatred i see in MLC affairs.

How does one justify the hatred when they know they are the ones at fault?