Well i talked to him about the argumentativeness. He said that he didnt realize that things that he views as being so small, i am viewing as big things. He said next time he will try o think twice. He also apologized for the cursing. He said he realized it when my son started laughing. We also said that it cant get to a point where he feels like he is walking on egg shells either. I am just gonna take things slow right now. I have been working so much and have been so stressed cause of the 2nd job. I feel like i have a lot of issues too.