I guess i just dont understand how the "YES, NO" only communication will ever lead to a more open, less contentious co-parenting situation. It seems to me that that would just maintain the existing level of animosity from her end.
Can someone explain how this is beneficial not stagnant?

Im honestly not sure why she is still harboring such vitriol towards me.
She is the one who wanted out, who had a hidden affair for 8 months, who lied, and cheated, and left our home, disrupted our life, all just to chase her Limerant Object.
So why am i the perpetual bad guy for originally wanting to fix our MR, and now just for standing my own ground and acting in S3's best interest.
It doesn't make sense to me.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds