Joseph,

I can see the difference in your convo with your EX.

Notice how your EX will communicate and cooperate.

"deduct it from the child support"
Never would i ever hear that from my EX.

I am trying to slowly build to a point where the animosity has faded and we can communicate like you and your EX do.
Everything gets turned into a federal case right now, either by me in the past, or by her.
Take the "did you stay at the Beach House" section for example.
She claimed to be just relaying what S3 said, but it was clearly just a veiled way to ask if I had stayed at the Beach House.
No different than when I had been calling to talk to S3, when i was actually trying to see if she was sleeping at home or at OM's.
Im done with the spy crap. Its getting neither of us anywhere but with more grudges and BS.
Im done being angry at her, but i am also done walking on eggshells and trying to be all subtle about stuff.

As far as the passive aggressiveness, i doll it out when i receive it. Such as the OK Emoji. Her trademark "F**k you" equivalent. I am not going to just bend over and play Mr. Nice Guy, i will stand up for myself, but not go on the direct attack.

Im just sick of being lied to. Over and over again. It needs to stop. Nothing will get accomplished without honesty.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds