you say D is a forgone conclusion. Well, I say, prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
Don't worry about moving your daughter to a new home, you can make it fun and memorable for her - trust me!
Your W being stubborn could mean plenty in your favor b/c it would take a stubborn person a long time to back off of the bomb drop that is divorce.
What you have to keep in mind is that somewhere out there is a great woman who will treat you better than this. She exists and is real and you are capable of finding her.
Don't fear divorce, the marriage is already gone and what's dead may never die (Game of Thrones fans???). If the good lord helps you resurrect the MR, then great. If you get a divorce, oh well, it's just a formality at this point.
Stay strong.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.