Dealing with childhood issues is very painful Many people in MLC or not will never dare to go back to such painful memories and try to heal- Many say MLC is caused by unresolved childhood trauma
You did excellent in the conversation You can not fix her-
We as the LBS have to be the light for our kids Usually, the MLC can offer nothing as the way of a parent Sometimes they can share the co parenting, but I rarely see this on these boards
Bottom line is continue to work on you Prepare to let her go, she may return, you will get more information as time goes on But usually the MLC gets worse, before better some will never recover-
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