well just like that I get an txt about our attorneys talking...as I say D is a foregone conclusion. no way W changes her mind. in her anxiety mind completing the D is likely another task/worry on her list. would not surprise me at this time if completing the '"task" is more important to her than whether or not getting a D is what she really wants. i'll always wonder if this was WW/MLC/OM or what. main question I need to decide is trying to keep the marital home or make a clean break with the past and move. the most pain I'll have is if I move I'll be taking D from the only home she's known since she was born. i just feel like I need to clean break though, move away from W and her family and start over. it wouldn't be that far from D really. i guess the other concern is that if I kept the home W's ghost would always be there and it would be awkward (in my opinion) should I have any future relationships with other women.
would love to hear more people's opinions on this topic. also Wlf, Lane, Eq I want you to know that I said a prayer for each of you and your sitches last night before bed along with a prayer for all of those whom I don't know/follow that like me are here on this board not of their choosing. I wish you all patience, strength and peace.
