Received this by email early this morning. I feel calm. Advice on next move please:
These are the grounds I will be submitting for divorce tomorrow. Should you have any objections please let me know by lunchtime today as the papers will be drawn up this afternoon.
Thanks
Controlling behaviour – I feel that the poor actions towards each other is due to a power struggle within the relationship and therefore even the smallest of tasks such as laundry, cooking and shopping become a battle and results in arguments Lack of respect – We are unable to communicate in a respectful manner, often talking to each other with little to no respect for each other and often in front of other friends and family members, which causes upset and embarrassment Lack of affection – Our marriage is run like a business partnership and not like a loving marriage. More time is spent organising, planning and discussing work or the future than any affection, love or kindness which results in loneliness I have fallen out of love with my spouse and have not shared the marital bed since March. I have also asked for a separation back in March and have been trying to amicably work towards the split, taking into consideration the children and each other’s feelings There is a lack of sympathy towards my illnesses which at times is frustrating and upsetting when all I need is support I had asked for a legal separation but was asked by my spouse to apply for a full divorce and the grounds be provided to him prior to submitting to the courts (Which has been done)
