Loves can I hire you like Hitch? You're going to send me money or vice versa? You make me laugh at least...
I hope this sh*t works.
She just said ok in response to my been busy.
Planning on saying I understand you've been trying to reach out more goodnight in a bit.
No, don't say that last part now. My suggestion for saying that was to validate her, but now that you've responded (even better) with just been busy, leave it at that. Remember, the niceties do nothing to help you! It is too much. It gives her that feeling of control again. Once she feels that she goes dark on you.
Did, when you say you hope this works, what do you mean? NOTHING YOU DO ASSURES you will be successful and saving your MR. NOTHING. What we are coaching you on gives you the best choice because your mysteriousness makes her curious. And curiosity leads to sniffing around. And sniffing around leads her to see you are changed. And that can lead to re attraction. But none of that is guaranteed.
There are so many variables it is impossible to be successful in that way. The best measure of success is that Did is okay no matter how it turns out!! Whether she comes back, or never comes back, Did being okay is where success is.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
