And... 915pm she texts - Meteor shower all week. Nothing like laying ion the beach w dog, pitch black... seeing a shooting star and realizing how small and insignificant we are...
Sounds like stuff I was saying to her 8-10 months ago...
NO RESPONSE Still.... or something short like, Enjoy it.
When she asks whats up with responding just say something like been busy a bit later?
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
And... 915pm she texts - Meteor shower all week. Nothing like laying ion the beach w dog, pitch black... seeing a shooting star and realizing how small and insignificant we are...
Sounds like stuff I was saying to her 8-10 months ago...
NO RESPONSE Still.... or something short like, Enjoy it.
When she asks whats up with responding just say something like been busy a bit later?
Say you were busy.
The fewer words the better. That’s the strat I’m employing in my DB.
She sent me a picture of the moon and stars. I "loved it" on iphone double click and said have a nice night.
She then said thank you.
After that she said Im trying to reach out to you more but maybe you dont want me to?
This is a pretty obvious temp check even I cant miss it... my instinct is to say something like actions speak. Or I dont really care about texts. In the past Id explain what I do want but I definitely will not do that...
Or just say been busy.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
Or say- were separated you texting me doesnt matter. Actions speak. Enjoy your time at the beach.
Part of me thinks I would be there if sh*t wasnt all Fd up. And Id be looking up at the stars with you. I asked to do this with you for months. Makes me think shes an idiot. Kind of mad Im allowing her to distract me.
Or just say been busy. Goodnight.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
"I understand you are reaching out more, and I always try to respond to things that require a response, but I've been pretty busy so responses might be delayed."
Be mysterious. Be coy. Make her wonder what is going on.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
And yes this is temp checking 101. As you detach she will start doing and saying things like this more and more. She feels a loss of control over you, this causes her to reach out to try to reattach you.
And you are still too wordy. You need to drop the unnecessary niceties. No need to throw in "Enjoy your time at the beach."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
One last point. This is all friend-zone stuff. Personally I would have zero interest in being her friend. You want to be her husband again, not her friend.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Loves can I hire you like Hitch? You're going to send me money or vice versa? You make me laugh at least...
I hope this sh*t works.
She just said ok in response to my been busy.
Planning on saying I understand you've been trying to reach out more goodnight in a bit.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
