Vapo and Friends
This is exactly what I needed to hear.
I Came on today to get reassurance from the people here. My W has been gone with the kids for a few days. They are on their way home now.
My daughter came across the D papers in WW's car....She then found on her IPAD history that W is planning a trip to Cali in Sept for a few days. So needless to say I am totally bummed out today....

So am I doing the right thing by not contacting her in any way accept kids? Is Detaching and GAL really the best option??? Vapo..you're so right when you say I am in the toughest place and it will probably get worse!!!

I do believe I am exiting the shock phase. I am feel so broken after having some good days.


ME 47 W 38
M17 T20
Separated 5/20/18
D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed
4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15