Vapo and Friends This is exactly what I needed to hear. I Came on today to get reassurance from the people here. My W has been gone with the kids for a few days. They are on their way home now. My daughter came across the D papers in WW's car....She then found on her IPAD history that W is planning a trip to Cali in Sept for a few days. So needless to say I am totally bummed out today....
So am I doing the right thing by not contacting her in any way accept kids? Is Detaching and GAL really the best option??? Vapo..you're so right when you say I am in the toughest place and it will probably get worse!!!
I do believe I am exiting the shock phase. I am feel so broken after having some good days.
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15