Good to hear from you again. Regardless of what your W is doing, it sounds like you are in a good place. That is great to hear. I feel like we have shared a lot of this journey together. If you are already there in terms of reaching a place where you are emotionally healthy, self-assured and centered, I can only congratulate you. I know for me that is a process that is going to take a much longer time as I can't undo 40 years of bad mental habits in just 4 months. I would just caution that I have had periods where I felt like that only to come crashing down days or weeks later. I hope it is lasting on your end.
You talk about the time and distance snuffing out the embers of feelings the W might have had, but what about on your end? Based on what you said about the wedding ring as well as the rest of your post it sounds like you are still stoking those embers. Is that a fair assessment?
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
