I'm sorry to hear that 284. That must be rough. My own D-day is probably about 8 months in the future, and I'm sure it will hit me like a sack of bricks.
If she wants to go for a divorce then there isn't much you can do. You're absolutely right that you can't control her. That said, it seems like she is moving awfully fast. You don't have to sign anything without going over it with a lawyer or the like. Don't just sign off on it because she wants a quick resolution, make sure that you are protecting yourself, your son and your finances.
Hang in there.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
