So fogg, yes. I cant change him. This is his personality.
I know couples, i even have aquaintances that communicate via banter and cursing and joking. And I do ask myself, "am i being sensitive? Is it me? Was he out of line or am i just being hyper critical?"
Its like, i dont know what norms are in people.
I see the issues people have in meetimg someone that wants a relationship, that wants to settle down. It is not easy. I found soneone that lives close to me, has tons of time for me, is willing to be a stepdad and capable of loving someone elses child, is responsible and stable, is loyal and honest and has no addictions.
But there is something off. I dont know if he is just being human, or if those examples i gave indicate a seriously unhealthy dynamic. Or if i am just looking for stuff cause i have issues. It has not felt good the past few times we were together. We werent socializing well. No fights. I just felt detached and distanced.
