OK here goes first post... pt 3

[bhappy2]

You are focussing way too much on W, you need to detach the sooner the better. everything you are posting has to do with your W. This cannot be healthy, stop looking for a reaction from her.

You said a very pretty lady asked for your phone number... really? Is that how it happened? Just sitting there and made conversation and she asked for your number? Slow down David. You really need a chance to heal, you will start to see things more clearly if you detach (lovingly). Hopefully this lady will not call you... her calling you is not going to help you at all.

Start each day with Facts only. Do not fabricate, in your mind what you think might happen or what someone else is thinking or what their reaction will be if this, or that happens. Slow down and live right now for you and your children. It is best not to tell the children every single detail of what is going on.

Have you spoken to an actual Lawyer yet, not a law person, I mean an actual Lawyer/Attorney?

Have you spoken to a Independent Counselor? Not a friend who knows about Divorce.

You need to do the hard work in order to get through this, start with step 1 Do not talk to your W unless it is about the children. Do not ask her how her day is or how she is feeling. Think of it like this, every time you ask her something not related to the kids she wants out even more, so if she is 1000 meters away from you, you just pushed her another 1000 meters away. Leave her alone.

Now go GAL life crazy!!!